In No One’s Trash, Bella Williams lead readers on a very personal journey, as she considers how she interacts with a person who is completely absorbed in their own adversity. Bella herself has several battles to fight, though, and yet she remains focused on what matters most. As a reader, early in the book, you may have the impression that the relationship itself is precarious like a group of wheels that are out of balance. But as the narrative progresses, it develops a strong message: the value of accepting your true self, even with the pain involved.
Imagine being in a relationship where one partner enjoys gossiping and sharing, while the other person acts as the understanding and decent listener. Now, if the continuous gossiping continues for a week or two, one of them, if not both will undoubtedly develop an addiction to the other. She accepts the fact of never being understood by her partner, the way she wanted herself to be understood.
This lack of emotion leads to numerous plots between two people, which is something that continues throughout the book and gives readers a clearer picture of how terrible it can be to lose oneself entirely into another.
Mentioning all the obstacles in-depth, and briefly elaborating on her exact feelings, the author has pushed the bush to another extent in order to make her audience actually feel what she was exactly going through, keeping up with the relationship.
Confronting to her partner; You question my sincerity and my efforts towards our relationship without knowing that even after you left, I still sit and think of all the memories we made together and not only think of but, cherish the time that we spent together.
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